Orphan, Princess, Senator, Rebel leader, Head of State, wife and mother, ambassador, Jedi Knight. A strange career path for anyone except our own Leia Organa Solo.
Who can forget that scene in "Return of the Jedi?"
"The Force is strong in my family," Luke says. "My father has it, I have and my sister has it."
"I know," Leia replies. "Somehow, I've always known."
And it seem likely that she did. There she was running around the galaxy with two attractive men, one who mirrors her beliefs and ideals, the other one an older man, a scoundrel, one with his own agenda. One would seem the perfect match for her, and yet she falls for the dubious one.
(Yes, I know she kissed Luke in ESB, but that was just to make Han jealous.)
So even early on, she knows there's something special about Luke.
But even knowing, always knowing, doesn't make it easy to accept.
Even after all these months, she couldn't make herself entirely belief that actual Jedi blood ran in her veins... She had never entirely gotten her mind around the truth that her instincts and intuitions and premonitions were much more that psychological phenomena...
Coming to grips with their Jedi heritage must have been easier for Luke; growing up on the Outer Rim, he'd barely even known what a Jedi was. Leia, on the other hand, had been raised in a household that was steeped in reverence for the Jedi Order and everything it had stood for. ("Luke Skywalker and the Shadows of Mindor"
Before reading this, I never gave much thought to Leia's upbringing, and how it affected her throughout her life. Bail Organa was a great supporter of the Jedi, and his memories of the Old Republic and the Jedi Order must have seeped into the stories and lessons he gave his adopted daughter.
He knew she was the daughter of Anakin Skywalker, but did he know that Darth Vader was Anakin? I don't think so. I don't think he would have involved Leia so deeply in Imperial politics if he'd known. Whatever he knew, it's obvious he never told her anything, for her own protection.
It takes Leia a long time to come to terms with being a Jedi. Was it denial? Fear? Awe? Or just plain disbelief?
Whatever the cause, she does come around in the end and becomes a Jedi Knight. A fitting profession for someone who's done it all!